
An essential element in dismantling the stigma of homelessness is introducing the individuals affected, humanizing their experiences. With this, Kasey’s story is a relevant reminder of the humanity within homelessness, offering an inside look on the lives of those impacted by the housing crisis.
Kasey is a resident of Island Crisis Care Society (ICCS) Supportive Housing and has been there since 2019, albeit an adjustment at first, it was a relief to be out of their previous living situation and setting upon new horizons. Kasey’s early life was marked by a consistent presence of addiction, mental health issues, abuse, and insecure relationships. Thus, Kacey’s living circumstances reflect the outcome of a life they did not choose.
Being the oldest of five siblings, Kasey was parentified due to the inconsistency of their parental figures. Ultimately, any opportunity for choice was taken away from Kasey, as the well-being of their siblings became the main priority. Through the sanctuary of ICCS, Kasey has been able to connect with their inner self and recenter the focus of their life on healing and building a future for themselves. “I’ve discovered so many quirks about myself as the mask slips off, you know? And I become more myself.”
In alignment with their self-discovery journey, Kasey has come to realize they enjoy engaging in creative and mentally stimulating activities, such as crocheting and knitting. Being in a supportive environment has empowered Kasey to pursue their aspirations of helping others, even creating hats for fellow residents to wear during the colder months. “I’ve made hats for people in the building too, I just, I like to bring joy to people. That’s my purpose in life.”
The place we call home and the community that surrounds us greatly influence our ability to build a life and envision a future. Kasey’s time at Supportive Housing has nurtured aspirations that have evolved into achievable goals they pursue each day. Despite our life circumstances, we all have the right to dream, and believing in the attainability of our dreams can greatly alter our current situation. For Kasey, the focal point of their goals has become writing a book that portrays an unfiltered version of their story, serving as a pathway for healing and sharing their journey.
Kasey emphasizes the importance of having a safe space for introducing positive and transformative changes, stating, “I felt a few days ago that I’m going through a good change, but it’s going to be hard. Yeah, not going to be easy. It’s the only way, though.” The programs offered by ICCS have offered creative outlets for residents like Kasey while providing a sense of community to reintegrate into society after periods of isolation or difficulty. Kacey conveys “The staff is amazing, I mean, the staff is just really great. Absolutely, they’re so kind and caring.” Moreover, Kasey’s journey exemplifies the supportive environment ICCS provides, enabling personal growth and facilitating enduring positive transformations.
Written by Aleeya Middleton, ICCS intern